Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Day 8: Feeling like A Hamster in A Cage? Your Life Matters May Be Out of Balance!

Sometimes you can be stretched in so many directions, have so much to do, and then pause and  ask yourself, what really matters.  It gets down to finding that right balance between the things you want to accomplish and the things that should really, truly matter.


A women shared with me that one day she felt like a hamster in a cage running nonstop on a wheel with too much to do and wondering which way is left and right.  On one hand she had a lot to do for work. On the other hand she had a lot that needed to be done after work and at home.  Yes, she too, had no balance.

Lesson 8 in Every Day Matters: If you are strectched in too many directions you will keep you from living a life that matters.
Don't accept a life of overabundance.  Take off some of your heavy loads.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Day 7: Living Like Peace Matters

New International Version: John 14:27  (©1984)


Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
 
I was thinking what a great blessing it is to know that you have left peace behind or with those with who you have come into contact.  I also thought about the ways we can show peace, find peace, be at peace, or live at peace.
 
  • Show peace by serving others who lack peace or live with fear. 
  • Find peace by coming to terms with the life you live or who you are as a person.
  • Add peace by  becoming an advocate for peace in places or parts of the world that need peacemakers.
  • Live at peace through how you love and how you forgive.
 
Here's a link to a famous peacemaking organization that celebrates its annivesary this week:
 
http://www.peacecorps.gov/index.cfm?shell=resources.media.press.view&news_id=1542


Lessons 7 Every Day Like It Matters: Develop a Peace Matters Plan. Start by creating a  Do Not Disturb My  Peace List, of anything that could steal your sense of calm. Then Tackle it One at A Time.

    1. Bad traffic

    2. Being late

    3. Relationships

    4. Money Woes

    5. Children

    6. Health issues

    7. Work
Most important, leave a legacy of peace behind you.


 
 

Monday, March 1, 2010

Day 6: Peace of Mind Matters

Last night I had a project to accomplish and it had me wondering why I took it on,. Ever have one of those is it worth it moments or what have I gotten myself into emotional roller coaster?
Sometimes you have to let go of the things that seem to weigh you down and just tell yourself it's going to be alright.  When your mind is filled with things that shouldn't really matter it will also affect your health, create anxiety, or have you depressed.


Today, I turned a new page on my stress levels. I woke up this morning and decided this day I'm only going to give attention to that which is meaningful to my life, not mentally harmful. Only what matters, only what matters, I told myself. It was like I was chanting.

God must have heard me. I had shared with a friend what occurred and had weighed me down the night before.  I  let someone else's actions impact me and take away my peace of mind and get in the way of what was supposed to be at the top of my list of matters.

The next day, a friend provided a remedy for what I needed to remind me my peace of mind matters. She gave me a wonderful American Greetings card.  I so love cards.

Sidenote: If you want to make someone feel like they matter, make them or buy them a card.

 Back to my matter:  The card ironically was about stress and one of the lines states "stress is like an unwelcome houseguest that shows up when you least expect it. It takes all your time and energy and wants you to entertain it."  Ouch, I thought, this guest has got to go. I have more important matters.


Lesson 6 in Every Day Like It Matters!:  Be at Peace and Let Go of Anything or anyone that tries to destroy it. Take several deep breaths every day. Listen to some music.  Tell a friend what you're going through.  Tell the stress, "you have got to go!" Buy a card to remind you of what really matters.

Join me in the challenge of living every day like it matters and don't give your peace away. Hold on to it like precious gold.  If stress is a guest in your life, send it packing!